If however, from too much conversing with material objects, the soul was gross,
and misplaced its satisfaction in the body, it reaped nothing but sorrow; body
being unable to fulfil the promise which beauty holds out; but if, accepting the
hint of these visions and suggestions which beauty makes to his mind, the soul
passes through the body and falls to admire strokes of character, and the lovers
contemplate one another in their discourses and their actions, then they pass to
the true palace of beauty, more and more inflame their love of it, and by this
love extinguishing the base affection, as the sun puts out the fire by shining
on the hearth, they become pure and hallowed. By conversation with that which is
in itself excellent, magnanimous, lowly, and just, the lover comes to a warmer
love of these nobilities, and a quicker apprehension of them. Then he passes
from loving them in one to loving them in all, and so is the one beautiful soul
only the door through which he enters to the society of all true and pure souls.
In the particular society of his mate he attains a clearer sight of any spot,
any taint which her beauty has contracted from this world, and is able to point
it out, and this with mutual joy that they are now able, without offence, to
indicate blemishes and hindrances in each other, and give to each all help and
comfort in curing the same. And beholding in many souls the traits of the divine
beauty, and separating in each soul that which is divine from the taint which it
has contracted in the world, the lover ascends to the highest beauty, to the
love and knowledge of the Divinity, by steps on this ladder of created souls.
Somewhat like this have the truly wise told us of love in all ages. The doctrine
is not old, nor is it new. If Plato, Plutarch and Apuleius taught it, so have
Petrarch, Angelo and Milton. It awaits a truer unfolding in opposition and
rebuke to that subterranean prudence which presides at marriages with words that
take hold of the upper world, whilst one eye is prowling in the cellar; so that
its gravest discourse has a savor of hams and powdering-tubs. Worst, when this
sensualism intrudes into the education of young women, and withers the hope and
affection of human nature by teaching that marriage signifies nothing but a
housewife's thrift, and that woman's life has no other aim.
But this dream of love, though beautiful, is only one scene in our play. In the
procession of the soul from within outward, it enlarges its circles ever, like
the pebble thrown into the pond, or the light proceeding from an orb. The rays
of the soul alight first on things nearest, on every utensil and toy, on nurses
and domestics, on the house and yard and passengers, on the circle of household
acquaintance, on politics and geography and history. But things are ever
grouping themselves according to higher or more interior laws. Neighborhood,
size, numbers, habits, persons, lose by degrees their power over us. Cause and
effect, real affinities, the longing for harmony between the soul and the
circumstance, the progressive, idealizing instinct, predominate later, and the
step backward from the higher to the lower relations is impossible. Thus even
love, which is the deification of persons, must become more impersonal every
day. Of this at first it gives no hint. Little think the youth and maiden who
are glancing at each other across crowded rooms with eyes so full of mutual
intelligence, of the precious fruit long hereafter to proceed from this new,
quite external stimulus. The work of vegetation begins first in the irritability
of the bark and leaf-buds. From exchanging glances, they advance to acts of
courtesy, of gallantry, then to fiery passion, to plighting troth and marriage.
Passion beholds its object as a perfect unit. The soul is wholly embodied, and
the body is wholly ensouled:--
"Her pure and eloquent blood
Spoke in her cheeks, and so distinctly wrought,
That one might almost say her body thought."
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